2015年2月23日 星期一

戀愛,結婚,共組家庭?

前一陣子(好久以前)有在收看台灣偶像劇:徵婚啟事
內容敘述出版社主編為了撰寫新書,描述現代人為什麼要結婚的故事
主軸圍繞在隋棠飾演的主編的愛情人生以及一路上遇到的每個個案(徵婚者的故事)
我也一樣感到疑惑,為什麼,要結婚?
後來沒繼續看完,覺得有點灑狗血,果然結局依舊偶像劇

對15-30歲的人來說
談戀愛是人生當中有趣且富有戲劇性及娛樂性的事情吧

有些人是自己和自已談戀愛
尤其是暗戀或曖昧階段
猜想著對方是否也抱有與自己同樣的心情
是談戀愛階段中心情(內分泌)起伏最激烈的時候
失戀、無疾而終,人總是情感動物,總是會在找到下一個目標,重複相同的動作
曖昧、暗戀、追求、戀愛、失戀

牽了手、接了吻、make love
戀情由濃轉淡
有些人又離開了這張床,繼續下一段曖昧、戀愛、由濃轉淡
有些人執子之手,白首偕老,愛情轉變成愛
人們總說是轉變成親情
但情、愛情、親情有點是對於"愛"這種無法言喻、只能用心感覺的感情的分類
兩個人在一起一段時間,情感面已經不是單純的愛情
除了戀人,還夾雜著朋友、親人的涵義


戀愛後,大部分的人都奔向婚姻
然後共組家庭,接下來就開始考慮買車子買房子生孩子

想法中,婚姻是一張合約、一種束縛,具有法律效力
人性本惡嗎?所以需要戒指、需要婚姻證明書來提醒自己、提醒對方:這輩子我們都要對對方負起配偶應負的責任?
當然溫馨一點的想法,對雙方是個里程碑,紀念彼此的愛情

有趣的是,對年紀大的已婚者,他們會把婚姻當作義務教育
每個人都得要接受婚姻,好像你沒結婚你就是怪胎
最近過年感觸更深,不管男的女的都要來上一句,有沒有男/女朋友啊?

通常會這樣:
>有沒有男/女朋友啊?
    >沒有
       >怎麼不交一個,條件太高嗎?趕快交一個啊,穩定點就結婚給你爸媽抱孫子阿
    >有
       >有就趕快結婚阿,不要拖,趕快結婚給你爸媽抱孫子阿

真是奇怪,皇帝不急急死太監

最近才知道結婚是個大工程,婚禮籌備是個大關卡
更不用說雙方家庭磨合的問題
想到就頭皮發麻

因為怕麻煩就逃避的婚姻的人不知道多不多
希望未來結不結婚只是選項之一,不會受外在因素影響

不婚主義
不知道過幾年想法會不會改變就是了









2015年2月15日 星期日

Lip Sync Battle with Will Ferrell, Kevin Hart and Jimmy Fallon (今夜秀最好笑的一次對嘴大賽)

看過超多次,實在是太好笑


有中文字幕: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qvZBXcgl73Q
但看之前最好也看過原版的MV會比較可以理解觀眾的笑點
但威爾法洛的表情實在太賤,不用看原版MV其實就很搞笑

比賽規則,每個人選兩首歌,事前都不知道對方的歌單,表演的時候才知道
Will Ferrell選的第一首是Queen  B(美國人好像都這麼稱Beyonce)的Drunk in love
有一段他很莫名氣妙的舞蹈可以參考原版mv 2:30開始...

第二首是冰雪奇緣的Let it go,而且主唱名字還講錯,最後自己frozen不動,眼淚快笑到流出來


主持人Jimmy Fallon帶來的第一首歌是Kelly Clarkson膾炙人口的Since you been gone,一開始拿著手表就超白吃,後來戴上皮手套跟摸臉完全戳中我笑點

第二首是Dirty Dance 的Time of my life,還外掛請Drew Barrymore來幫忙,Kevin Hart 還說剛剛問Drew 怎麼會來這,她說不知道,氣死他


凱文哈特第一首是John Legend的All of me,其實他的都跟原版mv沒甚麼關係,所以其實不用看也差

第二首是Katy Perry 的Roar (超級盃中場有表演)


Tonight Show 請過非常多人來參加對嘴大賽,非常有趣

Emma Stone 完全不計形象:

 

Joseph Gordon Levitt和Stephen Merchant看得出來take it serious!非常想贏



2015年2月1日 星期日

Maroon 5 crashes real Los Angeles weddings in new music video 'Sugar'

The music vedio "Sugar" is really fun and makes a hit. 
The director appeared to like wedding issue, he also directed romantic comedy "wedding crashers".
Brides and grooms were in complete shock when a curtain dropped down revealing the band, Maroon 5.
If it happens to me, I may have same response like them. 

Luckily everyone loves Maroon5, so the reaction of newlyweds and guests is positive and exciting. :)



                             

 "Sugar"

I'm hurting, baby, I'm broken down
I need your loving, loving
I need it now
When I'm without you
I'm something weak
You got me begging, begging
I'm on my knees

I don't wanna be needing your love
I just wanna be deep in your love
And it's killing me when you're away, ooh, baby,
'Cause I really don't care where you are
I just wanna be there where you are
And I gotta get one little taste

Sugar
Yes, please
Won't you come and put it down on me?
I'm right here, 'cause I need
Little love and little sympathy
Yeah, you show me good loving
Make it alright
Need a little sweetness in my life
Sugar
Yes, please
Won't you come and put it down on me?

My broken pieces
You pick them up
Don't leave me hanging, hanging
Come give me some
When I'm without ya
I'm so insecure
You are the one thing, one thing
I'm living for

I don't wanna be needing your love
I just wanna be deep in your love
And it's killing me when you're away, ooh, baby,
'Cause I really don't care where you are
I just wanna be there where you are
And I gotta get one little taste

Sugar
Yes, please
Won't you come and put it down on me?
I'm right here,
'cause I need
Little love and little sympathy
Yeah, you show me good loving
Make it alright
Need a little sweetness in my life
Sugar! (Sugar!)
Yes, please (Yes, please)
Won't you come and put it down on me?

Yeah
I want that red velvet
I want that sugar sweet
Don't let nobody touch it
Unless that somebody's me
I gotta be a man
There ain't no other way
'Cause girl you're hotter than a southern California day

I don't wanna play no games
I don't gotta be afraid
Don't give me all that shy shit
No make-up on
That's my

Sugar
Yes, please
Won't you come and put it down on me (down on me!)?
I'm right here (right here), 'cause I need ('cause I need)
Little love and little sympathy
So, baby, you show me good loving
Make it alright
Need a little sweetness in my life
Sugar! (Sugar!)
Yes, please (Yes, please)
Won't you come and put it down on me?

Sugar
Yes, please
Won't you come and put it down on me?
I'm right here, 'cause I need
Little love and little sympathy
Yeah, you show me good loving
Make it alright
Need a little sweetness in my life
Sugar
Yes, please
Won't you come and put it down on me?